Story by Paul Gillam '19
Prep News
The St. Louis U. High Fathers Club has been blessed with many great speakers over the years, but perhaps none more prestigious than His Eminence Timothy Cardinal Dolan, Archbishop of New York.
Dolan was asked to come speak at SLUH in September by Fathers Club President Hap Burke, '82. Burke was taught by Dolan in the seventh grade, so he already had a connection.
"I knew it would be an evening full of joy, laughter, brotherhood, and friendship. He preaches the Gospel with courage and joy and clarity, and he has a unique way of connecting with people and lighting up a room," said Burke.
Dolan, who was the main celebrant of the Mass, concelebrated with SLUH and other Jesuit priests from across the St. Louis area. Music, led by Addie Akin and Brian Gilmore, was provided by the SLUH varsity chorus, along with several other volunteer vocalists and instrumentalists. Three alums, George Staley, '10, Jacob Price, '17, and Salvitore Vitellaro, '17, retunrned to serve mass with junior Chris Staley. Nearly 800 people came for the Mass.
In his homily, Dolan spoke about silence. He focused on the importance of silent prayer and making time to take a step back and find quiet time to reflect and grow in relationship with God. He recalled the Biblical story when Jesus expelled and silenced demons from a possessed man and said that the devil likes chaos, and we can counter that chaos with silence.
Following the Mass, dinner was held in the Danis Fieldhouse. After waiting in line for a delicious meal of mixed vegetables, mashed potatoes, chicken, and roast beef, fathers and sons settled into the open seating to eat and connect with friends. After people had a chance to settle in and eat, SLUH president Dave Laughlin rose to the podium to give a word of thanks to all those present, to speak about the amazing history of SLUH, and to lead the fieldhouse in a chorus of "Happy Birthday" to celebrate the bicentennial of the school. Fathers Club president Hap Burke introduced the Cardinal and his many accomplishments to a warm SLUH welcome.
Dolan opened with a word of gratitude for being welcomed so warmly and quipped that Laughlin "suggested (he) speak on the history of Jesuits or history or St. Louis U. High school, or maybe Catholic Social Justice teaching for about 45 minutes," but in the end he decided to "completely ignore him."Instead, he focused in on three very central themes of the Society of Jesus: AMDG, IHS, and a man for others.
Dolan began with a story about the former governor of New York, Hugh Carey, a committed Catholic, and how Carey would add AMDG to each autograph he gave.
"This said something about where his greatness came from, that he was doing all of this for the greater honor and glory of God," said Dolan.
Next, he shared about a fellow priest who, while on the journey to sobriety, discovered that when we do things "for God's greater honor and glory, he's going to give (us) the grace (we) need."
Speaking on "IHS," the abbreviation for the name of Jesus, Dolan stressed the centrality that can be found in Jesus and gave a story of a benefactor of the Christ's Methodist Church in New York whose cabby, after being told by the benefactor to drive to Christ's Church, took him to St. Patrick's Cathedral, the Catholic cathedral of New York, claiming "All I know is that in New York, this is where Christ lives." Dolan tied the story into the discovering of the letters IHS on the highest part of the ceiling of St. Patrick's Cathedral during renovations.
"At the highest part of this cathedral, in America's Parish Church, across from Rockefeller Center, is the holy name of Jesus, symbolizing his dominion, symbolizing his power, symbolizing the fact that he is the height of everything we aspire to," said Dolan.
Giving a third story, he told of when he found himself standing next to Saint Teresa of Calcutta at the John F. Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C. before she was to speak and hearing his boss ask her what she would be speaking about. In response she said "I don't know. But it'll be something about Jesus, the centrality of Jesus. Jesus, my lord, my God, my all."
Finishing the triad of themes, Dolan spoke of SLUH's successful formation of men for others and the two types of virtues, "resume virtues and eulogy virtues," written about by journalist David Brooks. Eulogy virtues, such as honor, trustworthiness, loyalty, and love, Dolan claimed "are the virtues that flow from a man for others."
"The big temptation today has been the temptation to be a man for myself. So selfishness, narcissism becomes the big temptation," Dolan said.
Dolan warned against falling into this temptation and urged each person to be "men running the other way," in reference to the first responders who, during 9/11, ran towards the twin tower, opposite the way of the thousands who were running from the towers, to save those trapped inside. He said that each individual is at his or her best when one gives him or herself away to another in sacrificial love and this, he argued, makes a man or woman for others.
"What I tried to do, fellas of this bicentennial, is really try to speak about motive. What drives us? What makes us tick? What keeps us going? What kind of sustains us and gives us a second wind? I would presume and I would propose, that our motive is that we do it all for the greater glory of God, we do it for Jesus, IHS, and we do it for others," said Dolan.
After he finished speaking, Laughlin presented Dolan with a basket full of SLUH gear, including a scarf, a mini billiken statue, and a SLUH keychain. Principal Ian Gibbons, S.J. closed in prayer, but before the fathers and sons could clear out, Laughlin had several seniors, led by senior Jack Callahan, lead a chorus of the favorite SLUH cheer, "Oh When the Bills Go Marching In."
"It was really neat to have him here and to see him interactering with people the way he was. He was the last person to leave, you know, because greeted everyone who wanted to say hi, or shake his hand to take his picture. It was probably better than we could ever have ever expected," said Director of Annual Giving John Penilla, '99.
"The coolest part was seeing someone outside the Jesuit community talk so highly of the people that are teaching us and the group, the organization that we are a part of," said junior Reed Milnor.